Sunday, September 22, 2013

Julie and Jason have been best friends for years with no romantic interest in each other. He sleeps with someone new every few days and shes looking for Mr. Right. Now in their thirties they notice that their friends seem to lose all their good qualities when they have children child rearing and the spark of Eros dont seem to coexist. So they decide to have a child together share in child rearing but pursue their own romantic lives. Things go well until he meets Mary Jane and she meets Kurt. Both seem like perfect mates. What could go wrong

Review

As with any film we bring to it as much as we take away so I'm guessing this is why I thought Friends with Kids was a beautifully written and executed tale of modern love friendship and family whereas many people (it seems) thought otherwise. To set the scene of my particular disposition I'm in my late 30's female I don't want children have many friends with them and see only stress and unhappiness when I'm around them. So the opening 45 minutes was pretty must grist to my particular mill. And then three lovely moments were subtly conveyed in the remainder of the film there were no fanfares or big shiny signposts which made it all the better. I'm not going to say what they are dare you to find them for yourselves. All I can say is for me the film got love just right and actually made me slightly (very very slightly) broody. This is the kind of film which I think is rarely done well and whilst there's always room for Scifi thriller and horror (in my world at least) a well observed funny and moving commentary on the human state that you can relate to is what I think filmmakers should be most proud to do. It makes you think it makes you feel part of something more.